Relationship Horoscope October 1996 My name is Andrea Mallis and I'm a professional astrologer practicing in Berkeley, California and the creatrix of Virgo in Service at Your Service Astrological Consulting. Welcome to my monthly astrological column that has a specific relationship focus, since one of my specialities is relationship astrology. I do hope that you enjoy reading this column and that you find the information useful and insightful. If you know your rising sign, please read that too. Aries(Mar21-Apr20) Early Rams, appear more serious than usual, in just about everything. However, with the Sun transiting your solar seventh house, relationships are at the forefront. Along with Mars transiting your solar fifth house of romance and creativity, the messages are loud and clear--emote, create, don't hesitate. Use your emotional courage and dash to your advantage. The work scene perks up too....co-workers seem exceptionally attractive now, making the work day go by just a bit faster. Taurus(Apr21-May21) Mud baths, massages.....with Venus taking up residence in your solar fifth house of pleasures, romance and just plain fun, you certainly may want to indulge in sensual pleasures. Just don't overdo, as the bull can often times be gluttonous. Perhaps you are thinking about how to add to your income so you can afford even more luxury in your life. This month's Full Moon in your sign illuminates your path. Gemini(May22-June21) With the Sun transiting your fifth solar house of creativity and romance it looks like you maybe juggling several offers at once. Combined with the known fickleness of the twins, don't hem yourself into something you may need to extricate yourself out of. Your primary drive is to do what you want and set your own priorities. Be wary of gambling and speculation, as this month's luck may not be permanent. Cancer(June22-July23) Trick or Treat? The Sun goes in your solar fifth house a week before Halloween....Expect the unexpected, as you switch from domestic mode to entertainment mode. Mercury there on the 26th suggests an increase in creative activities and playfulness, taking in movies and concerts. Feeling pulled in different directions as personal needs square off with professional concerns can be a challenge. Differences of opinion may arise over money, so be flexible. Strive for harmonious relationships with loved ones on the new moon. Leo(July24-Aug22) With Mars in your solar first house of personal identity, stand back and hear the lion roar. Feeling more courageous, ask for any bold desire at this time. Commanding and demanding, rest assured you will receive much needed flattery and attention and focus. Outgoing and aggressive, relationships with children and lovers may prove tense, and a bit irritating, as if there is a thorn in your paw. You can show the world what you can do and make a powerful impression as long as you are sensitive to the needs of others. Virgo(Aug23-Sept23) The Vestal Virgin, a woman unto herself...May the flame burn brightly as Venus enters Virgo on Oct.3 and stays the month. Independent and strong, reminding yourself of your quest for perfection and wholeness. Whether you be more like Diana(the self-contained maiden), Selene(the earth mother) or Hecate(the wise old crone) embrace your high ideals and purity of purpose. Coming out of your shell, go ahead with that new job or romance, or turn the heat up on an existing flirtation. It will be difficult to resist you. Libra(Sept24-Oct23) Get ready for quite a social whirlwind.......Popularity plus! With the Sun in your first solar house and Mercury there from the 8th to the 26th, expect the phone to be ringing off the hook with enticing offers. With a solar eclipse New moon on the 12th, your leadership and drive increases as you ever so diplomatically push to get what it is you desire the most. Careful of quarrels with friends or losing friends through your ambitions. Perhaps you can put that energy into a sports or fitness goal, and work off that sweet tooth. Scorpio(Oct24-Nov22) It is getting to be your time of year, when the leaves have fallen off the trees and we all prepare for another journey to the underworld. Biding your time and conserving your vital energies, now is an auspicious time to recharge your spiritual and psychic batteries. The Witches New Year, also known as All Hallows Eve, asks us to go deeper and find the hidden treasures in all, as we honor those who have gone before us. With Venus in your solar 11th house of friendship, don't be surprised if a friend turns romantic, and showers you with gifts. Your already detective's mind is intensified as well, so there will be no pulling the wool over your sharp Eagle eyes. Sagittarius(Nov23-Dec21) With the Sun transiting through your solar 11th house of friendship and the future, get ready for a month of get togethers as you meet new friends and renew old friendships. Busily planting seeds for the next year, you are likely to aim higher. The future looks rosy, even through already rose colored glasses. Engaging in group efforts and projects in your personal and professional life are a good use of your optimism and generosity, not to mention idealism. Capricorn(Dec22-Jan20) Career is once again a focus as the Sun is in your solar 10th house of status and ambition. But do not forget about Venus, goddess of love and beauty in your 9th house, of foreign travels and religion, which sets the stage for pleasant romantic journeys, or spiritual or philosophical love. A person from a far and distant place may prove to be intriguing. You may be attracted to new people who are strange and different in terms of your past experiences. Take a chance and expand your horizons. Aquarius(Jan21-Feb19) With your Uranus ruler now direct as of Oct.9th, and transiting through your first solar house of identity, independence and freedom are strong themes...îI gotta be me....I gotta be free....î With Mars in the 7th solar house of relationships try not to read the riot act to those who need you close by. Interestingly enough, with Venus transiting through your 8th house of sexuality and transformation, those who have managed to break through the barricades, will be romantically rewarded. Love relationships can be instrumental in bringing about personal revelations this month. In fact, any relationship begun this month will have a strong undercurrent of intensity coursing through it. Pisces(Feb20-March20) The fog lifts as Neptune, the planet of spirituality and/or confusion, goes direct Oct. 6th. However, you are still subject to idealizing your partners out of all proportion as Venus visits your 7th house of partnerships. Art and culture is emphasized as well. Friends seem to come out of the woodwork to support and encourage you, leading to a profitable time for networking. Opportunities to share spiritual activities with your special friends present themselves. A meditation or yoga retreat could do wonders for your mind, body and spirit.