Diana Spencer and Prince Charles

A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles that Affect Their Ability to Harmonize with Each Other Prince Charles' Sun in Scorpio and Diana Spencer's Sun in Cancer: Both of them have strong, deep feelings and they bond very intensely. Consequently, they become very attached to each other and cling tightly to each other. However, their emotional natures are different in many ways, too. Diana Spencer often feels more compassion and sympathy for someone, while Prince Charles may view Diana Spencer's feelings as sentimentality. When wounded, Prince Charles becomes resentful and vindictive. Diana Spencer, on the other hand, cries or sulks, and usually lets the other person know (verbally or nonverbally) about it. Prince Charles, by contrast, hides it. They may also have different attitudes toward sexuality versus love. For example, Diana Spencer may feel that Prince Charles is sometimes more driven by instinct and lust than by love, and this may become an issue in their relationship. Overall, though, the intense bonding and emotionality of their relationship fosters a deep, lasting attachment between them. Prince Charles' Moon in Taurus and Diana Spencer's Moon in Aquarius: Both of them are stubborn and fixed in their ways, and their spontaneous impulses and emotional requirements are frequently at odds with one another. Prince Charles wants serenity, tranquillity and stability in the personal and domestic sphere. Very much a creature of habit, Prince Charles does not adjust quickly to changes in routine, home life or personal relationships. The old-fashioned, tried-and-true ways often suit Prince Charles just fine. Diana Spencer, on the other hand, craves excitement, social life and mental stimulation, and has a strong impulse to experiment with new ways of doing things. Diana Spencer is indifferent to custom and convention at best, downright rebellious toward authority and tradition at worst. Many of their disagreements revolve around the theme of maintaining the status quo (Prince Charles) versus change (Diana Spencer). Diana Spencer rocks the boat -- and Prince Charles may not like it a bit! Also, Prince Charles is somewhat possessive about loved ones, and Diana Spencer has a powerful need to be a free, independent individual, whether committed to a relationship or not. Furthermore, Diana Spencer is very ideological and often quite attached to opinions and beliefs that, in Prince Charles' eyes, defy common sense or the natural wisdom of the body and instincts. Prince Charles can help Diana Spencer become more attuned to nature, sensuality or the feminine side of life, instead of living only in ideas. Moon & Uranus hard or conj for Diana Spencer, soft for Prince Charles: Diana Spencer can be intensely restless, nervous, impatient and ill at ease with a predictable, steady routine. Domestic boredom is quite odious to Diana Spencer. Prince Charles also enjoys variety, the excitement of the new, and being unique -- but without Diana Spencer's erratic emotional fluctuations. They allow one another quite a lot of freedom, which is necessary for both. They would enjoy experimenting and discovering new territory together -- in ways their more conventional, tradition-bound friends never would. Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought Them Together Prince Charles' Sun Opposition Diana Spencer's Venus: Sparks fly when they come into contact with one another! Strong feelings of love, attraction, warmth, mutual admiration and appreciation bring them together, and they are able to express their love feelings openly and fully to one another. They can be great friends and companions, as well as lovers. Diana Spencer's Asc. Conjunct Prince Charles' Mars: There is a dynamic, vital, almost aggressive quality to their relationship. They share many of the same goals, and they enjoy working together to achieve them. They stimulate each other to accomplish and do more, and they put each other in an energetic, self-confident mood. The attraction between them is strong, and this relationship will have a big effect on both of them. The sexual attraction between them is immediate, very natural and spontaneous, though perhaps lacking in sensitivity at times. Prince Charles' Asc. Opposition Diana Spencer's Jupiter: Diana Spencer is of great benefit to Prince Charles in some ways: opening doors, offering opportunities to expand and grow, and bringing Prince Charles into contact with other people, or an entirely new world, which will enrich Prince Charles' life. Diana Spencer also gives generously to Prince Charles; emotionally, materially or both. There is a high level of trust and acceptance between them, which makes this relationship very nourishing and fulfilling for them both. Marriage, or any cooperative endeavor, is likely to be very successful. Prince Charles' Mercury Conjunct Diana Spencer's Neptune: There is a poetic, fanciful quality to their conversations. Diana Spencer brings out the poet and dreamer in Prince Charles. Communications on practical matters, however, may suffer, and they both need to be wary of exaggerating, hiding or deceiving each other. When with Diana Spencer, Prince Charles is often confused, less clear and less precise than usual. Prince Charles' Sun Square Diana Spencer's Moon: The two of them are fascinated by each other and strongly attracted to each other, but the distinct differences in their temperaments also inclines them to periods of personality clashes and misunderstandings. In particular, Diana Spencer often feels that Prince Charles does not sympathize enough or try to really understand Diana Spencer's feelings. If they try to force each other to be more like themselves (or more their like image of the perfect mate), this relationship can be disastrous. If the two of them understand and respect each other's differences, they can enjoy the fascination and stimulating effect of their differences without clashing with each other. This is easier said than done, however, and both of them must make a concerted effort to harmonize their very different temperaments. Prince Charles' Sun Square Diana Spencer's Uranus: Their relationship is exciting, unpredictable and stimulating. It tends to be explosive, too, and there is the strong possibility that they will come together suddenly and unexpectedly, and will break up just as suddenly. If either of them is looking for a very stable, quiet, traditional, uneventful marriage with security, commitment, dependability and predictability, then this is not the relationship for them! Together they will explore new possibilities and interests and break away from traditional, long-held beliefs and assumptions. Their sexual life, like other aspects of their lives, is exciting, but not predictable, and likely to vary from ecstatic to unsatisfying. They must be willing to be flexible and adaptable in all areas of life. Be wary, also, of letting their love for freedom and independence become a euphemism for being neglectful and inconsiderate of each other. Diana Spencer's Sun Trine Prince Charles' Mercury: The mental rapport that they share is a big reason why they enjoy each other's company and are good friends. Communication is open and harmonious. They work together very well on practical affairs, daily chores, problem-solving and business activities. Diana Spencer's Asc. Trine Prince Charles' Pluto: Prince Charles is 'the power behind the throne' when it comes to Diana Spencer's ambitions and aspirations, or Prince Charles may set the agenda with Diana Spencer carrying out Prince Charles' will and desires. Diana Spencer's confidence, personal effectiveness and social influence is greatly enhanced by Prince Charles' presence and encouragement. Prince Charles' Moon Square Diana Spencer's Saturn: This relationship is not an easy one! There is a sense of responsibility toward each other that may incline them to marry or form some kind of long-lasting commitment to each other. Although the union is likely to be long-lasting, it is also likely to have more than its fair share of frustrations and difficulties. At times they both may feel emotionally constrained and inhibited by being together, and this relationship may feel like a form of imprisonment! Prince Charles, in particular, may feel disheartened by Diana Spencer's criticisms, worries, fears or need to dominate Prince Charles' life. Prince Charles' emotional needs and feelings are ignored and neglected at times, leaving Prince Charles feeling alone in this relationship. Most likely there is too much emphasis on responsibilities and obligations, and not enough attention given to the needs for acceptance and tenderness. The serious tone of the relationship also stifles play and light-hearted, fun-loving activities. This relationship may endure, even when their feelings toward one another have cooled. There is a great deal of security in it, even if there is little satisfaction over time. Prince Charles' Moon Trine Diana Spencer's Mars: They stimulate and arouse one another's feelings and desires, the physical attraction between them is very strong, and they are quite harmonious and compatible sexually. They are also highly fertile together (assuming there are no organic or physical impediments). Prince Charles is very supportive of Diana Spencer, encouraging Diana Spencer to be direct, honest and expressive of personal wishes and needs. Prince Charles is also very turned on by Diana Spencer! This can be a very creative union. Prince Charles' Mercury Square Diana Spencer's Jupiter: This relationship has a marked effect on the overall attitudes and beliefs of both of them, but particularly of Prince Charles. They challenge each other's religious, political and philosophical beliefs. They may experience differences of opinion that are difficult to reconcile. They are also inclined to take risks together and speculate, sometimes foolishly. Prince Charles' Mercury Sextile Diana Spencer's Pluto: They enjoy deep, probing conversations with each other. Their conversations are rarely light and superficial -- they enjoy digging beneath the surface and they make an excellent research team, investigators -- or possibly gossips who cannot resist discussing every one else's business! Prince Charles' Mars Trine Diana Spencer's Uranus: An electric, exciting quality infuses their relationship and they encourage one another to be bold, confident and assertive. Vigorous physical activities, from love-making to sports, are good outlets for the vital dynamic energy they generate together. Diana Spencer's Mars Trine Prince Charles' Jupiter: The two of them form an effective, dynamic team in any venture or endeavor. They work together very well in accomplishing daily tasks, and it is likely that they will also successfully coordinate efforts or joint efforts, as well. Destiny and Final Outcome of Their Relationship Composite Sun Trine Jupiter: Through their relationship to one another, they both develop greater understanding, wisdom, confidence and faith in themselves and in life. They help each other be the best they can be, encourage one another to take risks, envision the possibilities, rather than focusing on the impossibilities. Materially, they could generate much prosperity and financial well-being if that is their mutual goal. They have very good fortune together in that way. Fulfilling self-expression, and joyful recognition for what the two of them do together are even more of a focus, however. Whatever endeavors they pursue as a duo will seem somehow blessed or unusually well-received. Composite Sun Sextile Saturn: One of the positives in their relationship of the sense that they can always count on each other, and that no matter what, they have a steady, reliable friend in one another. Conscientiousness, loyalty, the capacity to stay with it over the long haul -- these are essential aspects of their bond. Practical matters, the business of daily living, work and taking care of mundane affairs are also very much a part of it. They work well together. Planning and investing for the future, and making wise financial choices are emphasized. Composite Moon Trine Uranus: An unusually open, non-possessive, emotionally liberating relationship will naturally develop between them. Because they do not try to own one another, or to live up to some preconceived idea of how they should be together, they will both be free to express their true impulses and desires. The more they encourage one another to be free, the closer they will feel. One of the purposes of their relationship is to allow them both to experience being connected in a true friendship, which is not restrictive, binding or possessive. Composite Mars Square Uranus: An intense quality of impatience, and an inability to wait, restrain or thoughtfully consider their actions are innate aspects of this relationship. 'I want what I want and I want it NOW!' is the feeling they will both have. There is an impulsive, rebellious, dare-devilish, I-can-do-whatever-I-want quality which infuses their relationship with excitement, but also makes it unpredictable and unstable. If either of them has a problem with temper or a tendency toward violence, unfortunately this will be acted out in sudden and erratic ways. Even if they don't have these tendencies, they can be dangerous together because they make one another reckless. They can be wild and free together -- but also very defiant and easily provoked. Sexually, there is an electric excitement and energy between them that comes and goes. They are apt to be highly adventurous -- if not downright deviant -- as sexual partners. Unless other factors indicate otherwise, however, tenderness and softness may be lacking. Composite Mars Conjunct Neptune: As a couple, they may not be very effective or capable in dealing with practicalities and physical realities. Their goals are difficult to define and actively pursue. For the most part what motivates the two of them when they combine forces lies in the realm of the imagination. They really want to live out their fantasies with one another more than anything else, and this needn't be a problem if they clearly acknowledge that this is what they are doing. Erotic imagination, glamorizing sexuality and sexual expression as a form of worship will be coloring their relationship right from the beginning. Their fertile, creative imaginations will really be activated by being together. Positively, this lends an almost magical power to their sexual relationship but, on the other hand, should one or both of them fail to satisfy the other's dreams and desires, it would be especially disappointing. Above all, they should strive for honesty and clarity with each other in all aspects of their communication. It will be only too easy to confuse and/or deceive one another if they don't. Composite Mars Sextile Pluto: Together they will explore how they can best use their competitive or aggressive energies and their anger for constructive purposes. They may do this unconsciously through athletics, or even powerful and energetic music. Some type of creative outlet for these energies should be found. Massage or other therapeutic work that involves the body will also hold a fascination for them. The theme of releasing energy and renewing themselves through this process will be ongoing in their relationship. They may find that their sexual bond has an especially healing affect on both of them. Composite Uranus Square Neptune: In their relationship highly unusual psychic experiences, dreams and/or radical idealism will play a significant part. The two of them are not destined to live a conventional, or even a particularly stable existence together. At best, they will be guided by a clear inspiration and spiritual idealism. At worst (say, if they indulge in drug use), they will have trouble living in the real world at all. Composite Neptune Sextile Pluto: Mysticism, supernatural experiences, psychic communication, or interests of an inner or esoteric nature will play a significant role in their relationship. There may be an unusual shared interest in secret things, mysteries, uncovering things which have been hidden. Their 'psychic radar' and ESP are heightened, too, through their relationship and the 'far out' things they pursue together. Composite Moon Quincunx Mars: Part of the purpose of the two of them coming together is to clear up unresolved controversies, rivalries and leftovers from competitive relationships in their pasts. This is the source of many of the seemingly irrational arguments and irritations between them -- it is stimulating a lot of old feelings. In some way, this person in their present may remind them of a sibling, parent or significant rival who dominated or hurt them (or vice versa). For this reason, they are especially touchy and temperamental toward one another at times, and yet they aren't entirely comfortable directly expressing these angry, aggressive feelings. Making peace with their past is the way to ease the subtle, chronic friction with this particular person. Composite Moon Quincunx Neptune: Even if they are fairly clear-headed, sensible people, when they are together they are apt to be deluded, confused or intoxicated by some kind of false hope. Avoid being swindled by someone who would take advantage of their pity or soft heartedness, religious shysters and/or those who offer some sort of instant salvation. Above all, be absolutely direct and meticulously honest with one another. Hiding something for the other person's 'own good,' omitting the whole truth for fear of the repercussions, telling white lies which seem innocent enough at the time -- these can land them in murky waters that may be very difficult to get out of. Composite Moon Quincunx Pluto: Something from the past of one or both of them -- something that's been secret, hidden, taboo or purposely concealed or suppressed, will be an issue that they will be forced to confront at some time in their relationship. It may seep into their relationship and subtly poison it unless they are willing to be totally honest and trust one another. In fact, issues of broken trust or betrayal may have been the original source of trouble. Relationships with parents, children or immediate family, and/or interference from family members, will figure into this. They should try to avoid becoming enmeshed, for it could cause them much grief, even rupture their relationship. Composite Jupiter Sextile Saturn: The success the two of them enjoy will be based on realistic planning, knowing their limits and pacing themselves accordingly, and being both practical and visionary or idealistic. They would do very well in business together. What makes them effective as a team is that when one of them is overly expansive, the other offers a more cautious and steadying influence. However, when one is doubtful, the other one will buoy, encourage and lift up the partner. Any long-term investments they make are destined to be fortunate ones for them. Other Themes in Their Relationship