Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver

A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles that Affect Their Ability to Harmonize with Each Other Maria Shriver's Sun in Scorpio and Arnold Schwarzenegger's Sun in Leo: Both of them are very proud, stubborn and strong-willed individuals, and they are attracted to the strength of character that they sense in each other. There is a feeling of conquest between them that may serve to intensify the excitement of their attraction to each other. However, their strong wills may also prove to be a problem in a long-term relationship. They face the possibility that their combined inflexibility will make it difficult for the two of them to reach mutually satisfying decisions, and both of them tend to stubbornly resist compromising when their preferences are different. A battle of wills is likely to ensue! Another potential problem is jealousy or lop-sided bonding. Maria Shriver bonds very intensely in romantic relationships and is inclined toward monogamy. Arnold Schwarzenegger is also very loyal, but not nearly as intense, emotional or obsessive as is Maria Shriver. Maria Shriver's Moon in Leo and Arnold Schwarzenegger's Moon in Capricorn: Arnold Schwarzenegger's essentially sober, conservative and cautious disposition contrasts with Maria Shriver's exuberant, generous, dramatic temperament. Maria Shriver's tastes are lavish, bold and colorful, while Arnold Schwarzenegger prefers a subdued, simple, quietly elegant style. Whereas Arnold Schwarzenegger downplays emotions and emotional displays, Maria Shriver often exaggerates them. Like a child, Maria Shriver is eager for attention, love, praise and recognition from others, while Arnold Schwarzenegger, ever the adult, rarely admits needing people in that way. Arnold Schwarzenegger is, or appears to be, more self-sufficient emotionally. While Maria Shriver is usually quite warm and personable, Arnold Schwarzenegger is frequently detached, formal and businesslike with people. For Arnold Schwarzenegger, sharing is shown by dedication and faithfulness or by practical assistance -- 'actions, not words' -- and Maria Shriver sometimes craves more warm attention from Arnold Schwarzenegger. Also, Maria Shriver is more of an optimist by nature, whereas Arnold Schwarzenegger tends toward pessimism or at least a clear-eyed realism. Maria Shriver's cheerfulness can lighten Arnold Schwarzenegger's mood when Arnold Schwarzenegger becomes too serious (which is frequently). Both of them have Mercury conjunct, trine, or sextile Jupiter: Both of them think in long-range, broad, philosophical terms, and they seek to see the whole picture, rather than just the immediate. A shared interest in religion, Universal Law, metaphysics and the search for Truth is apt to be an important undertone in their relationship. Long-distance travel and communications, publishing and/or teaching are also areas of common interest. Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought Them Together Maria Shriver's Moon Conjunct Arnold Schwarzenegger's Saturn: Together they can build a solid, secure relationship, a place of refuge and strength, but they must take care not to make it a prison with too much emphasis on commitment, responsibility and duty. Arnold Schwarzenegger, in particular, has a strong parental attitude toward Maria Shriver, providing stability and support, yet also restricting, disciplining or criticizing Maria Shriver's emotional, childish needs. Arnold Schwarzenegger can be cool and indifferent toward Maria Shriver's neediness. A pessimistic, heavy, serious atmosphere may develop between the two of them. Maria Shriver's Moon Conjunct Arnold Schwarzenegger's Pluto: Maria Shriver's emotional responses to Arnold Schwarzenegger are very intense. If Arnold Schwarzenegger is physically attractive to Maria Shriver, then the attractive power of Arnold Schwarzenegger over Maria Shriver is extremely powerful. However, the attraction tends to have a love/hate quality to it, and they feel drawn to each other, but also wary and distrustful of each other. It is likely that they feel both drawn to and repulsed by each other at the same time! The emotional response to each other is intense and complex, and the ultimate outcome of this deep, complex emotional tie is difficult to predict, but one thing is certain: this is not a lukewarm relationship and they get under each other's skin, evoking intense feelings from each other. Maria Shriver can easily become obsessed with Arnold Schwarzenegger! Maria Shriver's Sun Square Arnold Schwarzenegger's Saturn: Arnold Schwarzenegger must be very careful not to harshly criticize or judge Maria Shriver. There is a strong tendency for Maria Shriver to feel blocked, frustrated and discouraged by Arnold Schwarzenegger. Typically, Arnold Schwarzenegger will feel surprised by Maria Shriver's feelings of frustration and anger, and feel that Maria Shriver is just being overly sensitive to criticism. There is an element of truth to both viewpoints: Arnold Schwarzenegger tends to be too critical of Maria Shriver, and Maria Shriver tends to be too sensitive to the criticism; the combination can be disastrous! Maria Shriver may try to ignore the problem, but ignoring the problem will not cause the problem to disappear. This is a relationship that can help both of them mature a great deal; they are able to build a secure, stable life together and face many challenges and responsibilities that they have been trying to avoid. However, the tendency to become overly concerned with their responsibilities and be too conservative, cautious and restrictive toward each other must not get out of hand, or they will both feel severely confined and restricted by being together. Maria Shriver's Sun Square Arnold Schwarzenegger's Pluto: Their relationship is intense, magnetic and complex. They are fascinated by each other and they engage in deep, intense discussions and encounters that unveil their innermost thoughts, feelings, goals, hopes, fears and ambitions. This is not a superficial relationship! They are very uninhibited with each other, and they open up to each other more readily than to others. Be wary of power struggles, however, as Arnold Schwarzenegger, in particular, may be tempted to use the magnetic attractive power over Maria Shriver to manipulate and control Maria Shriver. Also, either of them may feel threatened, embarrassed or weakened by revealing so much of themselves to the other, and consequently feel the need to be secretive and competitive with each other. They have a profound influence upon one another, for good or ill. Maria Shriver's Asc. Sextile Arnold Schwarzenegger's Venus: There is a sweet, romantic quality to their relationship that makes it special for both of them. They feel very comfortable with each other and are likely to be friends, and perhaps lovers as well, for a very long time. Maria Shriver's Mercury Square Arnold Schwarzenegger's Venus: They enjoy sharing ideas about the arts, literature and people, but often they fail to understand each other and sometimes reach a complete impasse. Their feelings toward each other are sometimes misunderstood, too, with one of them perhaps feeling more romantic, and the other person feeling inclined strictly toward friendship without romance. Both of them will have to tolerate different points of view from their partner for this relationship to work successfully. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Mercury Square Maria Shriver's Mars: The tendency to argumentativeness, verbal abuse and mutual misunderstanding is very strong, so they should heed the following advice, especially if their relationship is a permanent one: they should try to avoid abusive language toward each other, and try not to coerce the other person to accept their views. They enjoy challenging each other's ideas, showing the weaknesses, inconsistencies or superficialities in each other's reasoning. While the intention is good, the net result can be hurt feelings and anger. Typically, there is some truth to each other's point of view, but a lack of real appreciation and respect for each other's ideas triggers argumentativeness. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Venus Square Maria Shriver's Neptune: Their love for each other has a very dreamy, idealistic and romantic quality. They are infatuated with each other, sometimes almost hypnotized by each other. They tend to have glamorous and idealistic notions of each other that are far removed from reality. This relationship is prone to major disappointments when they each discover that their partner is not as perfect as imagined. Disillusionment and disappointment are likely, but they can mitigate this tendency if they allow themselves to enjoy the dreamy romanticism without projecting their wildest fantasies onto their partner, believing they have found the companion of their dreams. Destiny and Final Outcome of Their Relationship Composite Mars Sextile Neptune: Joining with like-minded others for community service, charitable work, volunteer activities and the like is one feature of their relationship. Actively doing things without selfish reward will help to fulfill, at least in part, the purpose of their relationship. Avoid associating with people who have unhealthy dependencies and who don't want to better themselves, because this can sap their energies considerably. Composite Sun Conjunct Venus: Quite simply, one of their purposes in being together is to create and express beauty, whether this is in the form of a beautiful, loving relationship or gracious and artful works. There can also be an element of vanity, artifice or wanting to show-off, the desire to be seen and recognized as a Beautiful Couple, whether or not that's entirely true. Hiding or downplaying their difficulties and the ugly parts of their relationship may be helpful to a point, but if they try to maintain this image of themselves as a happy, loving twosome despite their actual conflicts, then deeper troubles may never get attended to. However, whatever friction, dissonance or ill will develops between them, there will also always be an urge to harmonize, reconcile and ease their differences, and to create cooperation. It will take a lot for the two of them to ever turn against each other entirely. Composite Venus Conjunct Saturn: At best, the two of them will take their relationship with each other seriously, and are willing to work on the problems they have. A strong sense of responsibility, even obligation toward one another permeates their bond. However, they are apt to feel that all they do is work on the relationship, that it is beset with difficulties, disappointments and a sense of heaviness, and that there is meager reward for all of the effort required. There will be very little easy pleasure and lighthearted sweetness. Their affections turn cool, even cold, toward one another when they let the burdens they share become the sole focus of their togetherness. It is rather easy for distance and separateness to grow between the two of them. On the other hand, they may want very much to be close, but circumstances or fate prevent this from occurring. In either case, frustrated love feelings and inhibitions about giving and receiving wholeheartedly are bound to be a major challenge with the two of them. A feeling of restriction and containment, and emotional congestion, makes it difficult for either of them to be truly joyful together. However, if they are not seeking bliss, and a more subdued, committed bond is what they want, this may be a good choice. Composite Mars Conjunct Pluto: The two of them are an extremely potent force, and together they can effect enormous change (for good or ill) in their own and other's lives. Trying to force change in a willful, dominating manner, or in a fanatical, intolerant way can be very damaging, yet the drive generated between the two of they is so strong that this is definitely a potential to beware of. If either of them wills the other to improve, or wishes to fundamentally alter the other's nature, furious battles will be waged between them. There is an extremely competitive energy between them, and even if they have believed themselves to be mild, non-aggressive people, this drive to be first and to triumph will be powerfully active with them. If they join forces to accomplish a task, nothing will stop them. If they compete solely with each other, someone is likely to get hurt -- badly. These are issues that will inevitably be faced at some time in their relationship. Other Themes in Their Relationship Maria Shriver's Sun in Arnold Schwarzenegger's 5th house: Maria Shriver encourages Arnold Schwarzenegger's creative talents, and both of them are inspired to undertake joint creative projects. If they share a similar artistic or creative interest, then they certainly will work together and inspire each other tremendously along creative lines. They really enjoy each other's company, and love to play games together. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Sun in Maria Shriver's 4th house: Arnold Schwarzenegger is able to confide in Maria Shriver, and their relationship is a very personal, intimate one. Maria Shriver brings out Arnold Schwarzenegger's softer side. They are drawn to live together and share a home together. Maria Shriver's Moon in Arnold Schwarzenegger's 2nd house: Situations arise that make it natural for Maria Shriver to provide material and emotional support for Arnold Schwarzenegger. By circumstance, Maria Shriver becomes a benefactor to Arnold Schwarzenegger, and this support engenders deeps feelings of love and appreciation for each other. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Moon in Maria Shriver's 8th house: As their relationship develops, a powerfully emotional bonding develops. Their feelings for each other are intense and can also be rather complex. Jealousy is possible, and if things go wrong, they can hate each other with the same intensity that they once loved each other. If they marry or pool their resources but later separate from each other, they will have an extremely difficult time disentangling their mutually owned property, and they are likely to argue intensely over proper division of their joint assets. Maria Shriver's Mercury in Arnold Schwarzenegger's 4th house: Maria Shriver loves to discuss very personal issues with Arnold Schwarzenegger, which promotes a very close, inner tie between them. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Mercury in Maria Shriver's 3rd house: The two of them love to chat, and often it requires effort for the two of them to be together without talking, even if there is little to discuss. They should try to avoid the tendency to gossip with each other. Maria Shriver's Venus in Arnold Schwarzenegger's 5th house: Dancing, moonlit nights and other romantic activities are likely to be a very important part of this relationship. There is a fresh, joyous quality to the love they share. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Venus in Maria Shriver's 3rd house: Their conversations are generally pleasant and enjoyable. They argue with each other much less than they do with other people. Maria Shriver's Mars in Arnold Schwarzenegger's 4th house: For better or worse, Maria Shriver gets under Arnold Schwarzenegger's skin. Maria Shriver may infuriate, excite, inspire and sexually arouse Arnold Schwarzenegger, perhaps even all of these at the same time! If they live together, Maria Shriver will do much to maintain the home, but both of them must be careful to accommodate their partner's tastes and concerns and try not to overpower their partner, especially when domestic issues are involved. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Mars in Maria Shriver's 1st house: Arnold Schwarzenegger comes on strong, almost aggressively, to Maria Shriver, and this relationship is a lively, dynamic one. Arnold Schwarzenegger spurs Maria Shriver to do more and be more. Maria Shriver may feel inspired by Arnold Schwarzenegger, but may also feel that Arnold Schwarzenegger is too pushy. Maria Shriver's Jupiter in Arnold Schwarzenegger's 3rd house: Maria Shriver loves talking with Arnold Schwarzenegger, and, in fact, is prone to gossip a good deal with Arnold Schwarzenegger. Communication is open and uninhibited between them, and they find that they are able to discuss a wide variety of topics openly and freely with each other. Their conversations tend to go off in many directions with lots of digressions, and it is sometimes difficult for the two of them to stay focused on a single topic. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Jupiter in Maria Shriver's 6th house: Arnold Schwarzenegger loves to be of practical service and help to Maria Shriver, though possibly reluctant to help out others. Arnold Schwarzenegger takes a great interest in Maria Shriver's health and overall well-being, and helps take care of day-to-day chores. Maria Shriver's Saturn in Arnold Schwarzenegger's 5th house: This relationship causes Arnold Schwarzenegger to question personal skills and competence a great deal. Maria Shriver feels that Arnold Schwarzenegger is capable of so much more, and is inclined to feel that Arnold Schwarzenegger is wasting valuable talent. Maria Shriver would like to see Arnold Schwarzenegger be more serious and less superficial in creative work. Over time, Maria Shriver is likely to nag Arnold Schwarzenegger to concentrate more on expressing unused personal talents. Rather than inspire Arnold Schwarzenegger to do more, this may only serve to make Arnold Schwarzenegger feel inadequate and dissatisfied with any accomplishments or progress made. With care and consideration, Maria Shriver can, indeed, spur Arnold Schwarzenegger on to greater self-mastery and development, but the process is more delicate than Maria Shriver may at first realize. Great care -- and unconditional love -- is needed on Maria Shriver's part to achieve this. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Saturn in Maria Shriver's 4th house: If their relationship is a long-term one and they live together, they can expect that this relationship will bring both of them face to face with personal habits of their own that must be improved, or at least adapted to the tastes of their partner. Issues such as tidiness and neatness at home, use of abusive or foul language, choice of foods, tastes in music and decor or approaches towards raising children come to the fore. At times they will come to an impasse and feel that they cannot come to an agreement on these issues. Maria Shriver, in particular, may become very frustrated by some of Arnold Schwarzenegger's deeply ingrained, personal habits. If their ethnic backgrounds or upbringings are very different, this problem can be severe. If both of them can be tolerant, open-minded, accepting of shortcomings in their mate and willing to learn new attitudes, they can turn potentially frustrating situations into opportunities to mature and grow emotionally. Maria Shriver's Uranus in Arnold Schwarzenegger's 1st house: Arnold Schwarzenegger's more unusual, creative side comes out in this relationship, and Arnold Schwarzenegger feels more spontaneous and exuberant with Maria Shriver than with most other people. Consequently, there is a lively feeling to their relationship, but if Maria Shriver is a rather unstable person, then Arnold Schwarzenegger may feel that there is not enough stability and reliability in the relationship. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Uranus in Maria Shriver's 2nd house: Arnold Schwarzenegger encourages Maria Shriver to use more creative, unusual methods for investing, developing financial stability and security. Arnold Schwarzenegger may, for example, encourage Maria Shriver to invest in a new enterprise that presents big opportunities, but is also risky. Maria Shriver's Neptune in Arnold Schwarzenegger's 4th house: There is a good deal of fantasy, imagination and playfulness in their relationship. Maria Shriver, in particular, sparks Arnold Schwarzenegger's imagination and intuition. One way this quality is likely to express itself is in the style of their home, which is likely to be decorated and arranged in a very imaginative way. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Neptune in Maria Shriver's 6th house: Maria Shriver is often disappointed in the way that Arnold Schwarzenegger handles problems and performs various chores and tasks. Maria Shriver is likely to feel that Arnold Schwarzenegger is careless or sloppy. They approach many tasks in a very different manner from each other. This is not likely to create any serious problems, and can even add some interesting variety to their lives. Maria Shriver's Pluto in Arnold Schwarzenegger's 3rd house: Maria Shriver sometimes expresses ideas and opinions in a very forceful manner to Arnold Schwarzenegger, who inspires Maria Shriver to take a strong stand on issues, but Arnold Schwarzenegger may feel that Maria Shriver is too narrow-minded at times. The two of them can work well together in areas that require concentration or bold presentations, such as research, marketing, etc. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Pluto in Maria Shriver's 4th house: A lot of powerful emotions come to the surface in this relationship. Their attachment to each other can be very intense, and the possibility of arousing jealousy or hurt feelings is very strong. Unfortunately, both of them may let the feelings boil for quite a long time before expressing them. They need to be honest and open with each other because, otherwise, a complex knot of feelings can develop between them, developing into a love-hate relationship. Maria Shriver's Sun Conjunct Arnold Schwarzenegger's Jupiter: There is a tremendous amount of good will, optimism and enthusiasm in their relationship. Arnold Schwarzenegger draws out Maria Shriver's optimism and self-confidence, and is able to assist Maria Shriver in discovering new possibilities and avenues for growth. A shared vision, philosophy or goal for the future gives vitality to their relationship. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Sun Conjunct Maria Shriver's Uranus: They inspire each other to try new things, experiment and investigate alternatives. They may have met each other, for example, during a time period when both of them were breaking free from traditional values and exploring new possibilities. There is a lot of excitement and spontaneity in their relationship. The two of them may find it difficult to settle down into a stable life style -- there will always be surprises and unexpected turns in their relationship. They encounter lots of new ideas, unusual people, adventure and exciting times together. They both enjoy a good measure of freedom and independence in this relationship, but either of them may wish that there was more commitment, devotion, seriousness, warmth and closeness. Maria Shriver's Sun Trine Arnold Schwarzenegger's Mercury: The mental rapport that they share is a big reason why they enjoy each other's company and are good friends. Communication is open and harmonious. They work together very well on practical affairs, daily chores, problem-solving and business activities. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Sun Trine Maria Shriver's Venus: Theirs is a congenial and enjoyable relationship, for they both like, love, appreciate and make special efforts to please one another. They also share a similarity in tastes and enjoyment of leisure activities and pleasures. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Asc. Square Maria Shriver's Mars: The two of them frequently approach work and goals in very different ways, and consequently they are inclined to step on each other's toes. Arnold Schwarzenegger may feel that Maria Shriver is pushy or insensitive to all of the issues and concerns that are involved in a situation. They can work together very effectively, but it requires them to allow each other the freedom to approach problems in a very different way than they would. Very often, they can accomplish more by working separately from each other on different aspects of a problem, rather than attempting to work jointly. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Asc. Trine Maria Shriver's Saturn: Maria Shriver is a stabilizing force in Arnold Schwarzenegger's life, and offers steady, quiet support when Arnold Schwarzenegger is in need. Maria Shriver may help Arnold Schwarzenegger build a firm foundation and long-term security for Arnold Schwarzenegger's life. It is easy for them to be committed to one another, both as friends and as lovers. Maria Shriver's Moon Square Arnold Schwarzenegger's Jupiter: They enjoy joking and kidding each other, and they spark each other's sense of humor. In fact, it is sometimes difficult to be serious with each other; the tendency to be light-hearted and jovial is too irresistible. Also, they are very supportive and encouraging to each other, but they tend to be overly optimistic about each other and make promises that they cannot fulfill. They encourage each other to be extravagant, sometimes too much so. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Moon Trine Maria Shriver's Jupiter: A pleasant, harmonious tone pervades their relationship. This quality is so natural to their association that it is easy to take it for granted. They feel very at home and comfortable with each other. They put each other in a good mood, and their domestic life tends to be very harmonious. They may bring out a lazy, indolent, self-satisfied side in one another. Maria Shriver's Mercury Trine Arnold Schwarzenegger's Uranus: Their conversations are spirited and often exhilarating. They spark each other to view situations in a new light and they inspire creative, original, inventive ideas. This relationship inspires creativity and originality, and a fresh attitude toward life -- and they should share a very interesting life together. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Mercury Trine Maria Shriver's Saturn: They work together well on practical problems. They help each other refine and clarify their ideas, and help 'edit' each other's work. Consequently, they make a very effective team in business affairs, important or exacting work, and in solving daily problems. Maria Shriver's Venus Trine Arnold Schwarzenegger's Venus: There is a beautiful flow of love between the two of them, and they are able to both give and receive affection, appreciation and tenderness in this relationship. They enjoy the same pleasures and find it easy and natural to do those things that really please and satisfy their partner. Their tastes in aesthetics is also very compatible. Arnold Schwarzenegger's Venus Trine Maria Shriver's Saturn: There is a great deal of mutual trustworthiness, reliability and responsibility in this relationship that makes they both feel very secure with each other. They can count on each other, and they both take the relationship seriously. They willingly make sacrifices for each other, and a deep love between them develops over time. They will assist each other a great deal over the years. This is likely to be a deep, meaningful, lasting relationship. Maria Shriver's Mars Trine Arnold Schwarzenegger's Mars: They are able to coordinate their efforts and work together very well on practical tasks. They make an excellent working team. There is a warm, stimulating, energizing quality between them, and they generate a lot of steam for anything they undertake together. They also discover their physical drives and desires are very much in sync.