Marilyn Monroe and Arthur Miller A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles that Affect Their Ability to Harmonize with Each Other Arthur Miller'

Marilyn Monroe and Arthur Miller A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles that Affect Their Ability to Harmonize with Each Other Arthur Miller's Sun in Libra and Marilyn Monroe's Sun in Gemini: They have an excellent mental rapport, and they enjoy one another's intelligence, wit and style. Both of them are very social creatures who thrive on interaction with people, cultural activities and conversation. Their match is likely to be a very egalitarian one, for they both want a partner who is an equal and a friend above all else. Arthur Miller is very considerate, has a strong desire to please Marilyn Monroe (or any partner) and will compromise readily; Arthur Miller always sees numerous possibilities or desirable alternatives, and they both sometimes have trouble being decisive or making up their minds. Arthur Miller's Moon in Aquarius and Marilyn Monroe's Moon in Aquarius: Both of them are very independent and do not want to be possessed or restricted by other people's ideas of what they should do or be. There is a rebellious streak in both of them. Being part of something larger than themselves, a group or community of some sort, is very important and necessary to them. Neither of them is especially domestic -- they need involvement in the world at large, or at least a wide social circle. They are both very idealistic about how people should behave toward one another, and they may have some difficulty accepting their own human reactions and emotions -- anything that is less than completely fair, generous and noble. They are frequently out of touch with what they are REALLY feeling, and they also may ignore, or be uncomfortable with, other's feelings, needs and emotional displays. Other people may perceive them as cool and detached. Together they are likely to be very good friends, appreciative of one another's ideals and visions, but the warm, personal, romantic element may be lacking. Both of them have Moon conjunct or in hard aspect to Saturn: Both of them are emotionally cautious and reserved, and find emotional intimacy rather difficult. Periods of acute shyness, and feeling distant, alone and unable to be a part of things are common with both of them, especially at an early age. As they grow older, each of them is apt to overcome their inhibitions and gain self-confidence. Struggles with parents, or with problems related to a lack of adequate nurturing as children, are also challenges both of them face. Both of they have Mars conjunct or in hard aspect to Neptune: Both of them struggle with feelings of discouragement, self-doubt and lack of confidence in their ability to stand up for themselves. Avoiding direct confrontation, they may allow themselves to be dominated, or they may find subtle, underhanded ways to get what they want. They both fear losing or being a failure so much that they may simply not compete. On the other hand, both of them tend to idealize masculine strength, power, competition, and maleness in general -- all qualities that, deep down, neither of them feels they have enough of. Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought Them Together Marilyn Monroe's Asc. Opposition Arthur Miller's Uranus: There is a powerful, electric attraction between them, and their relationship is likely to begin suddenly and to intensify quickly, rather than growing gradually from friendship into romance. They are excited, impulsive, free and uninhibited with one another, and may experiment with unconventional ideas or social behavior that they would never have before. Arthur Miller's entrance into Marilyn Monroe's life may also be unsettling, disruptive to Marilyn Monroe's current personal relationships, forcing unexpected changes or a sudden break from friends or partners. Also, they allow one another an unusual degree of personal freedom. Arthur Miller's Moon Conjunct Marilyn Monroe's Moon: There is a great similarity in their moods, instinctive responses to life and emotional needs. Many of their personal tastes and habits are also similar. This similarity in temperament promotes domestic harmony and a naturally cooperative feeling for each other. They enjoy making a home or living together, as they instinctively know what makes their partner comfortable and happy. Marilyn Monroe's Mars Conjunct Arthur Miller's Jupiter: They spark each other's ambitions and enterprising spirit, and they enjoy planning and designing ventures. They are able to jointly follow through to successful completion of their goals. Arthur Miller gives Marilyn Monroe confidence and encouragement to charge ahead, while Marilyn Monroe stimulates Arthur Miller to act decisively to actualize Arthur Miller's dreams. They are likely to undertake several joint ventures, as well as other individual efforts that are greatly assisted by their partner. Occasionally, they take foolhardy risks and are overly zealous and unrealistic in their hopes, but their dynamic blending of energies can also result in outstanding accomplishments. Marilyn Monroe's Sun Trine Arthur Miller's Uranus: Playfulness and a zest for newness infuse their relationship. They really spark each other's imagination and creativity. This quality is especially welcome in a long-term relationship because they will not fall into a lifeless routine. They spur each other to explore, take risks and develop new creative outlets. They encourage each other's independence. There is an electric, spontaneous quality between them, and their sexual relationship is lively and exciting, as well. Arthur Miller's Sun Sextile Marilyn Monroe's Neptune: A strong feeling of sympathy and shared idealism is an important link between the two of them. Their ideals, intuitions and religious aspirations are very harmonious and they work very well together, and are able to assist each other to grow spiritually, often in an unconscious way. They help each other to look beyond the immediate personal problems and concerns, and focus more on their higher aspirations and loftier ideals. Arthur Miller's Asc. Square Marilyn Monroe's Pluto: Marilyn Monroe is a force for considerable benefit or harm in Arthur Miller's life, either greatly enhancing Arthur Miller's personal power and confidence, or seriously undermining it. Marilyn Monroe forces Arthur Miller to examine the hidden motives and intentions behind Arthur Miller's actions, and may bring out some unsavory aspects of Arthur Miller's character or past history. An intense confrontation of wills, often going on in a subtle, behind-the-scenes way, characterizes their interaction at times. It is very likely that there is much unfinished business of an emotional or personal nature which draws the two of them together, and may bind they in a powerful love-hate, 'can't live with him, can't live without him' relationship. Arthur Miller's Asc. Trine Marilyn Monroe's Sun: Marilyn Monroe motivates, encourages and energizes Arthur Miller's self-expression, and can be very helpful in all of Arthur Miller's projects and activities. When they are together, they both feel more positive, alive and vital. Destiny and Final Outcome of Their Relationship Composite Sun Opposition Moon: Initially there will be a great feeling of excitement and attraction between them, and simultaneously a strong aversion to one another and a resistance to coming together. Differences in upbringing, tastes, temperaments and personal habits (among other things) stand between them -- and yet draw them together, because they both find the differences energizing. Each of them has something the other wants but is not truly comfortable with. There will always be an intense sense of polarity between them, a dynamic tension. Frequent separations or spaces in their togetherness are necessary to sustain this relationship, yet they will also find themselves continually returning. Once joined, it will be next to impossible to ever completely escape one another. Composite Jupiter Trine Pluto: They will both benefit tremendously through their relationship with one another and the pursuits they will share. They have a healing, regenerating, rejuvenating effect upon one another, and the overall impact they have on one another's lives will be strengthening. They will believe in one another and in their relationship, and through this faith, both of them will make positive changes in their own lives. They'll undertake challenges which might have been too ambitious or overwhelming before. There is an almost magical blessing conferred on them both via this relationship. This relationship will withstand and grow through whatever changes they both go through. That is, growth and change will not be enemies to them. The two of them have a remarkable ability to rebuild and come back from any loss they have to endure. Composite Sun Conjunct Mercury: Theirs is an intellectual relationship, among other things. Exchanging thoughts, studying together, sharing information, talking and bantering, turning one another on to new books or ideas, sparking one another's curiosity and interest in the world -- all of these are important aspects of their relationship. A certain detachment and the ability to think about and talk about what is going on between them is also highlighted. Put simply, becoming more conscious or more informed and educated is a significant reason the two of them are drawn together. Composite Sun Conjunct Neptune: The two of them idealize one another and their relationship. There is a fairy tale quality, a feeling of magic and enchantment, of uniting with their soul mate, that permeates their bond. A delicate and subtle rapport exists between them, which cannot be described in concrete terms except to refer to it as a soul connection. It's an intuitive knowing of one another, and a sense of blending together spiritually. However, because of the stars in their eyes, they may not see one another very clearly. Their True Love may disappoint them with very human imperfections, flaws and inadequacies -- things they may take in stride with other people, but for some reason with this person seem like a terrible betrayal. If they can love one another unconditionally, including all of one another's human frailties, they will fulfill the purpose of this relationship. Neither of they needs to be a saint or a martyr for one another, they just need to be themselves! Another potential pitfall for the two of them is to encourage in each other excessive idealism, false hope, unrealistic fantasies and an urge to escape into paradise. They should try to keep their feet on the ground, while at the same time pursuing the many dreams they will have together. As a couple, the ocean or seaside is very beneficial to them. Composite Moon Opposition Mercury: With one another, they have the opportunity to become aware of their own deepest feelings, emotional biases and prejudices, and those unexamined beliefs and habitual assumptions about things which color their attitudes toward life without their even being aware of them. The differences in their temperaments, upbringings and personal tastes will challenge them both to clarify and talk about certain aspects of themselves that they've always taken for granted. From seemingly minor matters, such as food preferences, to more important issues, such as how to raise children, they'll have to hash over and discuss things that always seemed implicitly true or valid to them. One of the purposes of their relationship is for them both to speak of and consciously examine those subconscious patterns and ingrained beliefs, all the influences from their pasts. Through being together, they will understand themselves better. Composite Moon Quincunx Saturn: Their senses of what's okay, what is and isn't acceptable and what proper boundaries are, are very different on certain issues, especially regarding family matters. One of them may want more clear-cut boundaries and less interference from in-laws or children, while the other feels that a choice between 'my lover' and 'my family' must be made. A disregard or disrespect (or simply a disinterest) for one another's family, heritage or traditions is also a possibility, and this can be a divisive issue between them. In some significant way, severing old attachments will be necessary in order to develop a closeness with one another. If this doesn't happen, great gaps may exist and grow between them. Composite Venus Trine Mars: Warm affection, romantic desire and sexual harmony come naturally with the two of them. They'll find that expressing themselves sexually will simply flow, and this should be a source of great fulfillment in their relationship, easing at least somewhat any of the other challenges or conflicts they may have. This is destined to be a very creative union, and very fulfilling. In addition to the passionate element, which is quite strong, other avenues of creative self-expression flourish when the two of them work together. If either of them is artistically inclined, their relationship will enhance this. On a biological level, as well, the two of they are quite fertile. Other Themes in Their Relationship Arthur Miller's Sun in Marilyn Monroe's 3rd house: Arthur Miller openly shares thoughts and ideas with Marilyn Monroe, and the two of them love to share ideas, perhaps even gossip together. Marilyn Monroe's Sun in Arthur Miller's 9th house: Arthur Miller takes a great interest in Marilyn Monroe's philosophical or religious outlook on life, and Marilyn Monroe often assumes the role of teacher or mentor toward Arthur Miller. Arthur Miller's Moon in Marilyn Monroe's 7th house: Arthur Miller is more willing to cooperate and make compromises with Marilyn Monroe than with most other people. Arthur Miller often plays a supportive role with Marilyn Monroe, quietly providing assistance and support. This will be true, even if their relationship is not a serious or permanent one. Marilyn Monroe's Moon in Arthur Miller's 5th house: Marilyn Monroe greatly appreciates Arthur Miller's creative interests and provides an encouraging audience for Arthur Miller's personal, creative works, whether it be a garden, a culinary delight, home decor or artistic creation. Arthur Miller's Mercury in Marilyn Monroe's 3rd house: The two of them love to chat, and often it requires effort for the two of them to be together without talking, even if there is little to discuss. They should try to avoid the tendency to gossip with each other. Marilyn Monroe's Mercury in Arthur Miller's 8th house: Their conversations are rarely superficial, and the intensity and depth of their conversations may have been an important factor in drawing the two of them into a relationship. They are also likely to develop joint business ventures or financial strategies. Arthur Miller's Venus in Marilyn Monroe's 3rd house: Their conversations are generally pleasant and enjoyable. They argue with each other much less than they do with other people. Marilyn Monroe's Venus in Arthur Miller's 7th house: Marilyn Monroe is highly attractive and interesting to Arthur Miller, and there is a strong magnetic attraction between them that leads to a lovely friendship, and perhaps romance. Arthur Miller's Mars in Marilyn Monroe's 12th house: Arthur Miller has a strong desire to know Marilyn Monroe in a very intimate way, and often pressures Marilyn Monroe to reveal innermost, hidden traits. Marilyn Monroe, in turn, reveals more to Arthur Miller than to others. They enjoy times alone together, when they can be more intimate and less inhibited with each other. Marilyn Monroe's Mars in Arthur Miller's 6th house: Marilyn Monroe enjoys performing chores for Arthur Miller, and also takes an interest in Arthur Miller's work and health. Marilyn Monroe enjoys assisting Arthur Miller in practical ways, and the two of them are able to buckle down together and accomplish a great deal. Arthur Miller's Jupiter in Marilyn Monroe's 8th house: There is a strong inclination to merge resources, talents and energies. They tend to pool their resources and Arthur Miller, in particular, is not inclined to maintain a feeling of separateness from Marilyn Monroe. This tendency to merge finances, resources, as well as feelings and living space draws them into a very personal, intimate relationship with each other, which they will have to use will power to avoid, if they do not wish to be this close with each other. Marilyn Monroe's Jupiter in Arthur Miller's 5th house: The two of them enjoy playing games together, engaging in creative activities and hobbies, and they generally have lots of fun together. Also, Marilyn Monroe encourages Arthur Miller's creative talents and interests and enjoys promoting and assisting Arthur Miller's creativity, whether it be as simple as baking a cake or a major undertaking. Arthur Miller's Saturn in Marilyn Monroe's 12th house: If their relationship is a deep, long-term one, they will find that they are unable to keep any secrets from each other. Arthur Miller has a knack for prying into Marilyn Monroe's subconscious or hidden fears and concerns. Issues such as death, afterlife, guilt and religious faith are brought to their attention, even if these topics normally do not interest either of them. If either of them has any significant 'emotional hang-ups' (phobias, fears, guilt, etc.), these problems will be brought to the surface in this relationship, and they will not be able to escape facing them. Arthur Miller, in particular, won't let Marilyn Monroe avoid these issues, and brings them to the surface. The opportunity for inner growth and development presents itself, but they may also become further enmeshed in these emotionally based problems. Marilyn Monroe's Saturn in Arthur Miller's 2nd house: Handling of finances is a major issue in their relationship, especially if their relationship is a permanent one. Deciding how to increase income, how to wisely spend money, and how to develop financial security becomes a big issue, and major problems can arise if either of them ignores or overlooks their partner's point of view in these matters. They will learn a lot about handling money and resources, and how to develop material security in this relationship, and hopefully any difficult lessons will not cause serious regrets. Marilyn Monroe, in particular, should be wary of the tendency to be overly critical of the way that Arthur Miller handles finances, and should try not to interfere too much with Arthur Miller's decisions in this regard. Arthur Miller should try not to be overly sensitive to Marilyn Monroe's suggestions and should try to extract the useful, valuable suggestions and ignore the rest. Marilyn Monroe's Uranus in Arthur Miller's 6th house: Handling of daily chores and tasks can get very disorganized in their relationship, particularly if they live together or are married. Both of they may feel that trying to maintain an orderly life is an endless battle. Their daily routines change frequently, and they often switch roles. For example, it is likely that sometimes Arthur Miller may take are of cooking and cleaning, and then Marilyn Monroe assumes the responsibility, rather than one person always handling the same responsibilities. If they try to force a rigid system, they will find that it is not comfortable for either of them. Arthur Miller's Neptune in Marilyn Monroe's 12th house: The two of them are likely to share a lot of secrets together. There is a great deal of fantasy and imagination that they share, and both of them may feel that it is inappropriate to bring this side of themselves into the public. There is a strong spiritual or psychic bond that draws them together, and there is an element of mystery to their relationship. They may share some very unusual, almost mystical experiences together. Marilyn Monroe's Neptune in Arthur Miller's 11th house: They are likely to become involved in social groups, political or altruistic organizations, committees and religious groups together. A big challenge will be how to maintain a high level of integrity and honesty in these activities so that the ideals can be reached. Arthur Miller's Pluto in Marilyn Monroe's 11th house: The two of them inspire each other to become excited and even zealous about ideologies and social causes. Arthur Miller challenges Marilyn Monroe's theories, and any memberships with organizations, and motivates Marilyn Monroe to strive to reform and improve these organizations. They may become active together in politics or social issues. Marilyn Monroe's Pluto in Arthur Miller's 10th house: If this is a long-term relationship, Marilyn Monroe will have a critical effect on Arthur Miller's career and ambitions. Circumstances arise that enable Marilyn Monroe to play a key role in helping steer Arthur Miller's career along new lines, and to levels of greater stature and influence. Marilyn Monroe can help Arthur Miller gain a whole new outlook on career opportunities and the best way to utilize personal talents, but this process is a complex and tricky one. The final outcome could be very successful or a failure, depending on how both of them handle the situation. Arthur Miller's Sun Trine Marilyn Monroe's Moon: They have a strong affinity with one another, an instinctive rapport that enables them to know one another very well, almost from the start. A basic compatibility exists which helps them to overcome the stressful or problematic facts of their relationship. They have a natural sense of belonging with one another, and partnership of some kind is likely to develop and flourish. Arthur Miller's Sun Trine Marilyn Monroe's Jupiter: The two of them really enjoy each other's company! Marilyn Monroe has a great deal of confidence in Arthur Miller and is able to see Arthur Miller's best qualities. They are very encouraging and supportive of each other, helping each other to be more confident, open new doors, and advance and grow in both inner and outer ways. This positive note of good will and harmony is also invaluable in helping the two of them overcome differences in temperament and other stressful aspects of their relationship discussed elsewhere in this report. Marilyn Monroe's Asc. Opposition Arthur Miller's Moon: Although their tastes and preferences are often completely opposite from each other, they love and admire each other very deeply. There is almost a maternal tenderness that they feel for each other, and the warm sympathy and caring that they feel fosters a close and lasting relationship. There is a 'soul kinship' between them. Arthur Miller's Asc. Trine Marilyn Monroe's Mercury: They work together very harmoniously on daily tasks and they can communicate very clearly and openly to each other. They 'speak the same language,' and they have a knack for quickly understanding each other. Marilyn Monroe's Mercury Trine Arthur Miller's Uranus: Their conversations are spirited and often exhilarating. They spark each other to view situations in a new light and they inspire creative, original, inventive ideas. This relationship inspires creativity and originality, and a fresh attitude toward life -- and they should share a very interesting life together. Marilyn Monroe's Mercury Sextile Arthur Miller's Mars: Their conversations are invariably stimulating and challenging. They share ideas openly and candidly with each other, but fortunately are able to do so without insulting or attacking each other. They can work together very effectively in research, writing and business pursuits. They work together very effectively in developing and implementing ideas in virtually any area of mutual interest. Arthur Miller's Venus Opposition Marilyn Monroe's Venus: They appreciate each other and feel a strong attraction to each other. They are able to see what is beautiful in each other, even when their partner is troubled or facing difficulties. Their relationship is likely to be a lasting, fulfilling one. Marilyn Monroe's Venus Square Arthur Miller's Neptune: Their love for each other has a very dreamy, idealistic and romantic quality. They are infatuated with each other, sometimes almost hypnotized by each other. They tend to have glamorous and idealistic notions of each other that are far removed from reality. This relationship is prone to major disappointments when they each discover that their partner is not as perfect as imagined. Disillusionment and disappointment are likely, but they can mitigate this tendency if they allow themselves to enjoy the dreamy romanticism without projecting their wildest fantasies onto their partner, believing they have found the companion of their dreams. Marilyn Monroe's Mars Trine Arthur Miller's Saturn: They work together extremely well. They are able to focus on tasks, come to an agreement on what needs to be done, and get the job done. This is a tremendous asset for individuals that live and build a life together because the need to coordinate on tasks, whether they are minor tasks like grocery shopping or major tasks like planning career goals, is a big part of everyone's life. They help each other to be clear about what is really important and how to accomplish their goals. They are able to concentrate and work together in a focused, disciplined, harmonious manner. Arthur Miller's Jupiter Trine Marilyn Monroe's Saturn: They work well together on the level of practical, mundane affairs and could function very well as business partners. When they blend their energies, financial matters, investments and plans for future security tend to work out quite well. Because they are able to cooperate and to be faithful to their shared aims and goals, they make a successful team. Arthur Miller's Saturn Conjunct Marilyn Monroe's Pluto: It is likely that at the beginning of their relationship they both felt a powerful attraction to one another which one or both of them tried very much to resist, sensing perhaps that this would be a 'heavy' relationship, one that could not be taken lightly. This is, indeed, the case! They will be unable to hide their worst sides from one another. Arthur Miller, especially, may feel defenseless and exposed, as the interaction between they two reveals deeper fears, weaknesses and hang-ups. If there is a great degree of harmony and compatibility between the two of them (as shown by other astrological factors), the difficulties that arise will not be insurmountable: they will simply know one another very, very well -- the pain, struggle and darkness, as well as the light. They do become overly serious together at times, and they tend to isolate themselves from others.